newborning // the third time around


The big girls are at kinder, the baby is asleep. There are vegetables roasting in the oven for a frittata for tonight’s dinner. The washing has been put on and some episodes of Mad Men watched. Papers and pencils have been thrown into drawers and doors to messy bedrooms closed.

Newborning, the third time around… things are chaotic with three, but surprisingly there is an overarching sense of calm that comes with a little bit of knowledge and previous practice.

In the night when Peach is wide eyed and grizzly, I’m not in a flood of tears wondering what has happened to my life. I cuddle her close and breathe in her milky scent. I close my eyes when I can and go through that mental list – milked? changed? warm? tired? comforted? I remind myself how quickly this phase passes and life moves on.

Before I go to bed at night I quickly line up supplies for my nightly motherly duties – terry cloth towels, a few nappies, wipes, a full water bottle and a snack. I breastfeed in bed and close my eyes when I can. Nowadays nothing gets in the way of precious sleep time – if I can help it.

I’m slowly recovering from the birth and while life does not yet have a new flow, I have a new vision of how things are going to be. I know these sleepy newborn days don’t last, I know this round baby will soon open her eyes fully and begin to see the world around her in a new light. I know things will be busy and full when friends and family slowly move on with their lives and the food arriving on the doorstep and the kinder pickups gradually diminish.

Part of me is nervous, but the other part knows (read: hopes desperately) that I’ve got this.


  1. julietwohig June 25, 2015

    Congratulations to you, Lucy. For someone with a newborn and two other tots, you are sounding wonderfully lucid and articulate! Enjoy Madmen while you can I say! And keep shutting those doors xx

    • lucy June 25, 2015

      Thanks Julie! Probably still running on adrenaline I’d say! Hope you’re well xxx

  2. jimfay2013 June 30, 2015

    Congratulations Lucy. I found having the third baby an enjoyable “breeze”.

    • lucy June 30, 2015

      Thank you!! So far it does feel like that… still hard work but nothing like the other times… it’s still early days but hopefully it continues this way!


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